What came first, the music or the misery? People worry about kids playing with guns, or watching violent videos, that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss. Did I listen to pop music because I was miserable? Or was I miserable because I listened to pop music?
I'll me messaging each of the above, if things go undone or unnoticed.
If any of the above offends you, I truly am sorry, that's at the bottom of my list of things to do. However, to be honest, if you are indeed offended, maybe that just further solidifies the unmutual friendship.